Paula's Practical Divorce Resources

Welcome to My Divorce Resources, Help and Advice Site

Can I be absolutely honest with you...?

When it happened I was totally devastated! The very last thing I expected him to say to me was "I want a divorce".

For a short time I was simply too stunned to think. Then it hit me...

All of the desperate questions...

What will I do now?
How can I tell the kids?
Can we possibly get back together again?
What about money to live?
Where will I live?
What will my family think?
What will my friends think?
How will I survive this?
Why do I feel so clueless?
Why do I feel so BAD?

I couldn't even think of any desperate answers. I just wallowed in a sludge of despairing self-pity.

And I felt so utterly alone.

I wonder, is that sad scenario is familiar to you?

It might sound like an old cliche, but the only direction to go from such a miserable low point, is up.

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How I Got Through My Divorce Ordeal

By using some bitter resolve, I began to emerge from my emotional prison. I realized that I needed some really useful resources to help me to gain the necessary knowledge and experience to overhaul my life, to get me back on track. So I started reading everything I could lay my hands on that could possibly help me deal with the awful challenges I was facing.

Whenever I found some truely helpful, useful or inspirational information I would write it down. I would try to create my own personal article about it, which I would come back and re-read often. I also started to compile a list of other practical resources that I found to be exceptionally useful in my journey back to a normal happy life.

Finally, I achieved a happy and rewarding life. In fact my life now is more satisfying than ever. Something about that experience of researching, reading and writing lead me to eventually unlock some fearless energy from inside of me that I didn't know existed before. I now know that this new magical motivation sprang forth from one amazingly simple concept...

I now had information, I now had knowledge. And it is so very true that knowledge is power!

My friend Sally...

A little while back my very good friend, Sally, came to me in a terrible state. Yes, you guessed it, she had just arrived at the same sad realization - she was about to face a painful divorce.

As I tried to comfort her I thought about how I had felt at that time myself, and about my journey back from that painful brink. And I realized that I had something very special that I could give to Sally to inspire her, to empower her, to enable her to take charge of her situation and move towards a positive outcome. Yes, I had my collection of writings and resources that had assisted me so much during my own difficult times. I quickly decided to organize my information into some semblence of order as a single document, and I gave it to Sally.

As you have guessed, that document was the basis of this website (and associated e-book) that you are reading now. I knew from my own personal experience how much that knowledge had empowered me. I had a strong feeling that it could also help others to realize that there are ways out of their own form of darkness.

I soon started to see a new Sally emerging from her own gloom and sense of helplessness. Although she still has a little way to go, she is dealing with her challenges with a very positive attitude, as she realizes she now has the necessary knowledge to guide her along her path. She has also been inspired to do her own further research for her own resources to assist her in her quest for a fulfilling life. Sally's gratitude for what I gave her inspired me to make this information available to other women who are in a similar situation.

How I started my Divorce help website

I originally set up a simple web page where women left me their most pressing questions on handling the many details of their divorce and how to rebuild their future life. I then answered them. All of this information is included here.

The articles in this website, and associated e-book, are not meant to be great pieces of literary work. But what I have presented here comes from the heart and with well-meaning. It will not be the answer to all your problems and questions, but please use this information as the foundation, as the inspiration, for you to manifest your own desired future.

I have spent many, many hours online searching for the best resources to provide valuable help in various situations relating to a divorce or improving one's life after a divorce. I have included the best of these resources in the Online Directory Section, which will save you so much of your own research time. Please take the time to review them, as you will most likely find several items that will be of great benefit to you, or to friends or family members who may be in a similar situation.

It is my great hope that these writings will inspire and motivate you take the necessary action to lead you to a fulfilling and rewarding life. And when it all boils down to it, that really is the key... taking action!

Best wishes for your future.

Your friend,

Paula Michaels